{"id":665,"date":"2012-05-23T19:22:04","date_gmt":"2012-05-24T00:22:04","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/yogawithbarbara.net\/?p=665"},"modified":"2012-05-23T23:50:29","modified_gmt":"2012-05-24T04:50:29","slug":"ultimate-intimacy","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"http:\/\/yogawithbarbara.net\/?p=665","title":{"rendered":"Ultimate Intimacy"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>Ultimate Intimacy is what we all crave and ache for.\u00a0 It is the missing part of the puzzle..more to follow,ran out of time. Oh my gosh!\u00a0 I just realized what I did!\u00a0 Talking about the ultimate Intimacy and I have to run out before I can finish, something rather ironic about that&#8230;&#8230;&#8230;&#8230;..so anyway hope you&#8217;re still interested,&#8221; I&#8217;m back to let you know I can really shake it down&#8221;, I hope.\u00a0 As I write this it helps me to understand.<\/p>\n<p>\u00a0 The connection that we search for in every relationship,\u00a0the intimacy that is so often missing in conventional relationships is what we ache for.\u00a0 It starts\u00a0with a deep yearning to know the truth.\u00a0 The truth of who we are, where we come from and where we will go.\u00a0 The questions are always there but for some of us the burning quest continues far more deeply than others.\u00a0 When we are true seekers\u00a0of\u00a0answers to these questions, at times we can feel completely alone.\u00a0 This feeling of loneliness\u00a0often happens from the disappointment of assuming that a spouse or a sexual connection will satisfy this hunger.\u00a0 Ultimate intimacy can be \u00a0accomplished in this way, \u00a0but only in a symbiotic partnership where both parties have the same deep desire to know themselves through the eyes of another with like intentions.\u00a0 When this is not the case one party seems\u00a0needy, demanding, pestering and the other\u00a0seems non communicative and non respective.\u00a0 Very frustrating to both parties.\u00a0<\/p>\n<p>\u00a0Passion for the truth is the wisdom I\u00a0seak to live by, to be true to my needs and desires, what I ache for. To be healthy as I possibly can, mentally, physically and emotionally through my last breath.\u00a0 To breath in every moment of this adventure so deeply that at times I feel I might choke. Every fiber of my being vibrating and alive, from the tips of my toes to the crown of my head. \u00a0To have a companion who knows this same ache and wants to play. Who knows\u00a0that I am human and at times I settle or compromise my desires.\u00a0 This compermise\u00a0creates suffering misunderstanding and confusion for both.\u00a0\u00a0When I realize\u00a0 I have compromised they feel compromised. But if we both understand this and help each other remember\u00a0to\u00a0see the beauty of a sunset, a shooting star, smell a lovely flower, hug a tree and then hug\u00a0a run away partner we help each other to remember what we ache for, ultimate intimacy.\u00a0<\/p>\n<p>You&#8217;d think that by 64 and1\/2 I&#8217;d have these desires embedded in my soul, but that isn&#8217;t the case. So I write down my needs and desires, what I ache for so that I don&#8217;t become a pest because of compromising. I tell my loved ones and friends so they will help me see the light through the dark times and know the truth of my, as well as\u00a0their, souls\u00a0desires, what\u00a0we both\u00a0ache for and in so doing find that intimacy.\u00a0 We are here to help keep the doors open. To help each other shake off the crust. To reach out and touch each others hearts.\u00a0 To make\u00a0our hearts our\u00a0home.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Ultimate Intimacy is what we all crave and ache for.\u00a0 It is the missing part of the puzzle..more to follow,ran out of time. 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